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A Love Story

Michael & Esther

by Esther Agyapong
Our Love Story

My husband and I began our lifelong journey together on April 27, 2013. It was a day filled with joy, laughter, and love, surrounded by cherished friends and family who celebrated with us. Our union marked the culmination of a year-long courtship after we met at church, a place that fostered our shared values and faith. That connection rooted in faith became the foundation for our relationship—a cornerstone that continues to guide us even today. Here begins our Inspiring Love Story.

I Found My Mr.Right-Here Begins The Love Story

Before meeting my husband, I didn’t know when or who I would marry. Like many people, I had questions about my future, and while I had dreams and hopes, I trusted God’s plan and left the decision in His hands. I vividly recall the times I prayed, asking God to take control of my life and guide me toward the person He had chosen for me. Those prayers were filled with a mixture of hope, trust, and surrender to His divine wisdom. When I met my husband, everything fell into place. It wasn’t just that he was kind, loving, or committed, though he embodied all of those qualities. Also, it was the sense of peace and certainty I felt when I was with him. God made it clear that he was the right person for me—a true answer to my prayers.

Since our wedding day, that peace and assurance have never left me. My husband is exactly what I needed and more. He complements my life in ways I never imagined, and every day I feel grateful for the journey we’re on together. Our relationship has always felt like a divine blessing—a bond carefully crafted by God Himself, knowing our hearts and guiding us to each other. Even when life brings challenges, we stand firm in the belief that our union is God-ordained, giving us strength and resilience to face whatever comes our way.

God’s Planning Being The Best

Looking back, it amazes me how trusting God’s timing and His plan for my life led me to this incredible partnership. It’s a reminder that surrendering to His will, even when the future seems uncertain, can lead to blessings beyond imagination. Our story is one I carry with me proudly, not just as a testament to our love, but also as proof of God’s faithfulness and guidance.

Nearly a decade into our marriage, our shared faith continues to be a guiding light. Whether we’re making decisions for our family, pursuing new goals, or simply supporting one another, we know we’re standing on a foundation built by God. To anyone still waiting for the right person to come along, I offer this: trust His plan. In His timing, with unwavering faith and patience, He will lead you to the one meant for you. My story is living proof of His perfect design. And I’ll forever be grateful for the journey that started on April 27, 2013, with my husband—my perfect fit, my answered prayer, and my greatest blessing.

 

How I Met My Husband?

Looking back, I can see how surrendering control and placing trust in God transformed my life in ways I couldn’t have imagined. In my limited understanding, I once believed I had found the person meant for me. However, that person wasn’t who God had intended as my life partner. It was only when I let go of the reins of my life and allowed God to take charge that I began to see His greater plan unfold. Jeremiah 29:11 resonates deeply with me: “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.” This verse became a guiding light during that period of uncertainty.

Even though I couldn’t fully see or understand God’s plans at the time, I trusted His promise and waited patiently. When the right person entered my life, it felt so right—like a divine peace had settled over me. I often wonder what might have happened had I clung too tightly to my plans; perhaps I would still be searching for the fulfillment God had already prepared for me.

When I met my husband, it became clear that God had orchestrated our union. From our time together in church to our year-long courtship, everything seemed to align perfectly according to His timing. When April 27, 2013, arrived, we celebrated our union in a wedding that was simple yet full of love and meaning. Without financial assistance, we stayed within a modest budget, creating a day that reflected our personalities and faith. It wasn’t extravagant, but it was perfect because it was a true celebration of the love God had blessed us with.

How Is It Going?

Now, almost 12 years later, our marriage has been richly blessed with three wonderful children and countless shared accomplishments. Together, we’ve achieved more than we could have individually, and we see this as evidence of God’s hand in our lives. Our belief is that God brought us together not just for companionship but to fulfill a purpose greater than ourselves. That purpose is something we continuously seek through prayer, trusting Him to reveal it as we walk this journey together.

In moments of reflection, I’m reminded of how trusting God’s plan has shaped not only my marriage but my entire perspective on life. What seemed like disappointment or uncertainty in the past was God’s way of preparing me for the blessings and purpose He had in store. I encourage others facing similar uncertainties to hold on to faith and remember that God’s plans are always greater than our own. Even when the path isn’t clear, His guidance leads to peace and fulfillment.

The partnership I share with my husband is not just a testament to love but to the power of surrendering to God’s will. Together, we continue to pray for clarity and guidance in fulfilling the purpose He has for our union. As we grow in our marriage, we trust that His plans for us will unfold in His perfect timing, just as they always have. Every day, we are grateful for the life we’ve built together and the journey that still lies ahead.

Choose To Cherish Your Love Story, Not Fears

Life and marriage are profound journeys, both beginning with a single, courageous step. Fear can often cause hesitation, creating obstacles that delay progress or keep us from experiencing the blessings waiting for us. However, trusting God and taking leaps of faith—especially with your partner—can pave the way for unimaginable heights. It’s natural to fear failure, as every decision carries some level of risk. Yet, when we place our trust in God, allowing Him to guide us, His divine wisdom illuminates our path and leads us to His intended purpose, as promised in Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”

Marriage, like life, is filled with seasons—times of joy and fulfillment interwoven with moments of challenge and growth. From managing financial difficulties to navigating the complexities of raising children and fostering continuous growth within your relationship, marriage requires commitment, patience, and faith. These challenges, while often daunting, are opportunities to strengthen your bond and refine your partnership. Each decision you face, whether big or small, presents a chance to work together toward fulfilling the purpose God has for your union.

 

Role Of Prayer And Faith In Nurturing Love

Prayer is an essential tool in navigating this journey. When faced with uncertainty, doubt, or hardship, turning to prayer allows you to lay your burdens at God’s feet and seek His intervention. Whether you’re making the life-changing decision of who to marry or striving to move a relationship forward, prayer provides clarity, peace, and the assurance that God’s will is unfolding. It’s through prayer that you can invite God into your marriage, trusting Him to guide you toward outcomes that are ultimately for your good.

Taking leaps of faith together as a couple also strengthens your partnership. It’s in trusting God’s plans and stepping forward—despite fear—that you develop a deeper reliance on each other and the divine support that surrounds you. These leaps of faith may involve pursuing a shared dream, embracing change, or committing to new goals. Each step forward solidifies your unity and allows you to experience the blessings God has prepared.

 

It’s Not Always Sunshine And Greenary

While marriage is not without its share of challenges, it is an extraordinary gift designed to mirror God’s love for us. When approached with intentionality, faith, and prayer, it becomes a union that not only fulfills your personal and shared goals but also glorifies God. Together, you can overcome obstacles, celebrate victories, and continue to grow in love and purpose.

Remember that the ups and downs of marriage are not barriers but stepping stones to deeper intimacy and spiritual growth. With God at the center of your relationship, you are equipped to face every challenge, make impactful decisions, and build a legacy of love that reflects His grace. Trust Him, lean on each other, and keep prayer as your foundation. Through these acts of faith and devotion, your marriage will flourish, and you’ll achieve the heights God has intended for you.

Why I Choose To Share Our Love Story?

I am sharing my story to uplift those who feel discouraged about finding love and building a strong marriage. It’s easy to believe that the right person doesn’t exist for you, especially if you’ve faced disappointments or setbacks in your journey. But I want to assure you that there is someone God is preparing just for you. That someone will not only complement your life but also bring you joy, peace, and purpose as you walk together in faith. The key is to trust in God’s timing. Further, surrender your requirements and preferences, allowing Him to lead you to the person He has chosen for you.

My story is a testament to how God’s plan can lead to love, fulfillment, and purpose. By trusting Him and praying for His intervention, I found my partner, the one who complements me perfectly and with whom I’ve built a life filled with joy and growth. Together, we have faced financial challenges, the responsibility of raising children, and the daily efforts needed to nurture our marriage, yet every step of the way, we’ve seen God’s hand guiding us and sustaining our union.

 

How A Marriage Can Thrive?

This doesn’t mean the journey will be perfect—marriage, like life, comes with its share of challenges. There may be moments of misunderstanding, conflict, or obstacles that test your patience and commitment. Keep your focus on the Lord, seeking His guidance through prayer and working on your relationship, your marriage will thrive. The foundation of trust and faith that God builds for you ensures that tough moments are opportunities for deeper connection.

Letting go of personal expectations and preferences can feel daunting at first. Especially in a world that often emphasizes compatibility based on superficial traits. Yet, when you release control and trust God’s plan, you open yourself up to the possibilities He has for you. Yes, the possibilities that far surpass anything you could imagine on your own. The person God prepares for you may not be who you envisioned, but they will be exactly who you need. His choices are always rooted in His infinite wisdom, designed to align with your life’s purpose and to glorify Him.

 

Final Thoughts

Marriage is not simply about companionship; it’s also about fulfilling a purpose greater than yourselves. When you place God at the center of your relationship, He equips you to navigate the ups and downs. Moreover, He allows your union to flourish in ways that inspire and encourage others. Every lesson learned becomes a tool for lifting others who may be on their journey of searching for love.

To those who feel discouraged or uncertain, I offer this encouragement: surrender your doubts, take your burdens to God. Allow Him to take control of your heart and your path. Trust in His divine timing, remain patient, and keep faith that He is preparing the perfect partner for you. Your love story may have hiccups along the way, but when God is the author, the ending is always beautiful. Let your journey and your marriage be a reflection of His grace, and allow your lessons to shine as a beacon of hope for others. Together, in faith and love, you will achieve a union that glorifies God and fulfills His purpose for your lives.

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